Say Yes To The Dress 👰

Hailey Matthews
May 31
2 min read

Updated: 2 days ago

I thought dress shopping was one of the easier parts of the planning process...As Lead Wedding Planner at SPTLGHT Ent, after all. But now that I am the bride? Different story. My Pinterest board said one thing, my budget said another, and honestly, I was letting outside opinions cloud my judgment. I started panicking about prices, trying on gowns that cost more than my venue (yikes). I wanted the moment to feel right, but the pressure was real Here’s what I learned from both sides of the aisle, planning and living it:

Try Multiple Shops 🛍️

Each store gave me new insight. Something that looks dreamy on a hanger might not work for your vibe or body type. Give yourself options and patience to check out multiple retailers.

Online is Not the Enemy 💻

Online is actually where I found my dress(s)! Shops like Rosie Etienne, Reformation, Lulus, and Azazie have beautiful options with realistic price points and good return policies. It was a low-stress experience once I took the time to really do my measurements, and it was perfect for my budget.

Factor in Alterations ✂️

Alterations matter. Budget at least a few hundred for tweaks like hemming, tightening, or strap work. It’s what makes a good dress feel like your dress.

Bring the Right Crew 👯‍♀️

Supportive. Honest. Not too many. You want people who get you, not people who confuse you.

Be Open Minded 🧘

I came in with a vision and ended up with something totally different than I thought I had wanted. Sometimes, the unexpected one is the one.

Think About the Setting 🌴

My wedding is in Hawaii, on grass. That ruled out anything heavy or too long. Let the location guide your picks more than trends.

Comfort = Confidence ✨

You can see it when someone doesn’t feel good in their dress. Choose what feels like you. Confidence outshines everything.

Enjoy The Process 🥂

Play music, take pics, and make it FUn. It’s a core memory, not a chore.

Check out some of the dresses I didn't choose! Each one is stunning and has its own incredible flair, but they just weren't the ONE... Get ready for the big reveal on May 8th, 2026! 😉